To Jeri
I don't know you, but you seem hard on yourself. Our mistakes are only our own to know, and we must have the confidence to not let that knowledge cloud who we really are, with only the positive of ourselves out to others. Of course it may seem arrogant at first, but it is about being true to yourself about your qualities. Of course nobody is perfect, but to talk about our imperfections to others does not help them at all. Only talking about lessons learned, and how negatives became positives are what people want to hear. The perspective shift is as easy as thinking that your skills and abilities compensate for your flaws so much, that your flaws become non-existent to those around you (other than your significant other perhaps). We are what we think we are, so no negatives, no Bs or Cs (or worse), only the best of yourself all the time should be on your mind, and the shift will happen by itself...
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